well... after mant hours of searching the internet for solutions and implementing them... i finally got it to work... this explanation is for anyone having this problem.. so heres what i did to resolve it:
1) i went to C:\WINDOWS\inf (was hidden so make hidden files visible by going to "tools" then "folder options") and searched for files that had "oem" in the name and had the phrase "amdk8" in it. you should only find one file, delete it and its accompanying .pnf file.
2) then go to run and type "regedit" and then delete HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE|SOFTWARE|AMD|CPU (i exported this first cuz i heard its kinda dangerous dealing with the registry)
3) at this point i guess the files needed for the drive have been manually deleted. i then went to the device manager, went down to processor, and uninstalled it.
5) PROFIT!!! (lol.. sup /b/) ... eh... ahem... after rebooting i was now able to update the processor drive by opening the driver update i DLed from the AMD site...
so all in all im happy now.. but remember i mentioned i wasnt able to uninstall it from the add/remove programs thingy? ... well i guess i didnt look too good before but that entry isnt for my processor.. it says Athalon 64 processor driver... i dont have that.. i have a turion... so if anyone knows how to get rid of this (cuz when i try to unistall it i get that pic in my first post) id appreciate it very much because i want my comp nice and clean
edit: wow... now another problem > > ... screen savers dont really load... well.. they do but... while i leave my comp and the screen saver loads, the comp will act as if someone touched the mouse... thus stopping the screen saver... any explanation for this would be appreciated... sigh...