Unless you bought a laptop that supports MXM3.0B cards. You are out of luck. There is no such thing as "upgrading a laptop" with a meaningful performance enhancing items besides an SSD.
If your laptop is an alienware , or Sager, Select few MSI/ Asus laptops. There is no upgrading your mobility card.
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